1.
"Excuse
me,
but
you're
kind
of
being
a
jerk
right
now.
"
【
#politeinsults】
2.
"I'm
sorry
to
say
this,
but
your
behavior
is
really
not
okay.
"
【
#gentleputdowns】
3.
"Could
you
please
stop
being
so
rude?
It's
really
not
necessary.
"
【
#requestforpoliteness】
4.
"I
hate
to
call
you
out
on
this,
but
you're
being
pretty
inconsiderate.
"
【
#calloutwithclass】
5.
"I
don't
want
to
start
anything,
but
could
you
maybe
tone
it
down
a
bit?"
【
#avoidingconfrontation】
6.
"I
don't
mean
to
be
rude,
but
can
you
stop
being
so
obnoxious?"
【
#softshade】
7.
"Sorry
to
say
it,
but
you're
acting
like
a
total
jerk
right
now.
"
【
#bluntbutnice】
8.
"I'm
really
not
trying
to
offend
you,
but
could
you
please
stop
being
so
disrespectful?"
【
#discreetrequest】
9.
"I'm
not
sure
if
you
realize
it,
but
you're
coming
across
as
really
insensitive.
"
【
#raisingawareness】
10.
"I
hate
to
say
it,
but
your
behavior
is
making
me
kind
of
uncomfortable.
"
【
#openingup】
11.
"I
don't
mean
to
upset
you,
but
you're
being
pretty
rude
right
now.
"
【
#gentlewarning】
12.
"I'm
sorry,
but
I
think
you
need
to
check
your
attitude
at
the
door.
"
【
#toughtalk】
13.
"I
don't
want
to
start
anything,
but
your
behavior
is
really
uncalled
for.
"
【
#avoidingdrama】
14.
"I'm
not
sure
if
you
realize
it,
but
you're
being
pretty
disrespectful
right
now.
"
【
#bringingattention】
15.
"I
don't
want
to
cause
any
problems,
but
you're
being
really
abrasive.
"
【
#peacekeeping】
16.
"Sorry
to
say
it,
but
you're
coming
across
as
pretty
rude.
"
【
#bluntbutfair】
17.
"I'm
not
trying
to
start
anything,
but
you're
being
pretty
inconsiderate.
"
【
#discreetreminders】
18.
"I'm
sorry,
but
you
need
to
respect
others'
opinions
and
feelings.
"
【
#commoncourtesy】
19.
"I
hate
to
say
it,
but
your
behavior
is
really
not
okay.
"
【
#speakingout】
20.
"I
don't
want
to
hurt
your
feelings,
but
you're
being
pretty
obnoxious
right
now.
"
【
#gentlereprimand】